Relationships and Friendships
Relationships and Friendships:
Have you ever wanted your friends to stop butting their noses in your relationship with a spouse of boyfriend by trying to give you the wrong advice and convince you to leave your relationship when they don't know what's really going on or the type of bond or commitment you have with your partner.
Distractions, distractions, and more distractions are the worst when you know that that's all you have with your friends when you're trying to have quality time with your man and they just so happen to know this, so they have an excuse all the time in order to take you out of your comfort zone in order to make themselves happy, but they also know that they're taking you away from what you love the most. Meanwhile, they have their man or significant other and just want to watch you be all lonely and stressed which I call pretty darn selfish.
You ever have a friend and you tell him or her that you have something to do or somehwhere important to go and they say, c'mon you don't have to wait he'll never call or you don't have to go or wait for whatever reason and then that's how you end up missing your prior engagemnet and then you end up getting upset or angry because you missed out on what you were supposed to do, so you end up receiving a response from your friend like oh c'mon, it's not that serious he's probably with someone else and they are just very needy for your friendship and are just thinking of themselves and not worrying about your affairs and what's really important to you which is just not fair at all. Or have you ever had a friend who was just so jealous of your relationship with a spouse or significant other by lying and spreading rumors about you just so that they can break you two up? Well, it's happened to me before and didn't like that at all. So therefore, I confronted that so-called friend of mine and realized that she had no life and was just miserable with her own life and wanted my man. So that's why she did it. So I came to the conclusion that she was just jealous and didn't want to see me happy at all because she had no one in her life. That is why they say that"misery loves company". So I let her go as a friend.
You see it's like this, if a relationship doesn't bring you joy, then you just move on and don't look back or give in because that same so-called friend of yours might just do something like that again to make you miserable.
Have you ever had a friend who tried to convince you to leave your significant other over an argument and you're willing to work it out with your relationship, but try to say things to you to convince you to break up? Well then, you don't need a friend like that at all because truthfully, that so-called friend is basically damaged and emotionally scarred so no, just don't follow any laime advices from that friend because that friend really wants to take your place deep down inside.
So when it comes to your relationships and your friends, you should always keep your love life private because that same friend that is trying to give you that negative advice might just want to fill your shoes!
About the Author:
Newly published author/writer.
A new writer of urban tales and fiction.
My second book will be out this spring of 2009.