Is Love a Choice?
While exploring the answer to this question I came across a definition in Wikipedia on-line:
Love:
Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another. It is considered a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships. However, in different contexts, the word love has a variety of related but distinct meanings: in addition to romantic love, which is characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire, other forms include Platonic love, religious love, familial love, and the more casual application of the term to anyone or anything that one considers strongly pleasurable, enjoyable, or desirable, including activities and foods.
Well, now I know that love is manifested in "a variety of related but distinct meanings". However, is love a choice? This inquiry was not answered in the quote above.
Maybe looking at the opposite of love will enlighten us. Fear, not hate is the opposite
love, and who is a better guide on the subject than Emmanuel. I want to share with you the clue to what I was looking for in this channeled pearl of wisdom:
The Choice For love -
What does the voice of fear
whisper in your ear?
Fear speaks to you
in logic and reason.
It assumes the language
of love itself.
Fear tells you,
"I want to make you safe."
Love says,
"You are safe"
Fear says,
"Give me symbols.
Give me frozen images.
Give me something
I can rely on."
Loving truth says,
"Only give me
this moment"
Fear would walk you
on a narrow path
promising to take you
where you want to go.
Love says,
"open your arms
and fly with me."
Every moment of your life
you are offered the opportunity
to choose -
love or fear,
to tread the earth
or to soar the heavens.
( Emmanule`s Book II)
Yes, for me love is a choice whenever I am confronted with fear,
since fear spells:
False Evidence Appearing Real
Raphael Wettenstein www.cafepress.com/ichooselove
About the Author
Was trained as a graphic designer, film maker, and is a certified
hypnotist.
Raphael has a background in education, advertising, media, and marketing.
His life long interest is new age philosophy and ideas.
R.W. lives in New York, and has four grown up children children.